What Is Success?

"Whoever wants to be My disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow Me." Matthew 16:24

  Everyone wants to be successful in life. Whether it's at your job, in school, as a wife or husband or as a parent...we all strive for success in something. In the world, success is defined much differently then with Believers. The world sees success through the eyes of money, power and prestige. While Jesus sees it through a life that follows His example of humility and servanthood.

Webster’s defines success as; “the accomplishment of an aim or purpose. As Believers we should ask ourselves the question, what am I aiming for in life? Is it to get ahead, to be financially stable, or to be known by others? All of these are self related, which is contrary to what Jesus tells us to do...deny our SELF, pick up our Cross and follow Him. If we are truly doing these three things then we will have a life that looks similar to His....a life of being sensitive to others, a life of self- denial, a life of serving others, and a life of striving towards receiving an incorruptible crown.

Success to the Christian is found in the person of Jesus Christ….period, nothing added and nothing taken away! We are given His example in the scripture to follow not to just look at from a distance and admire, but to live out in and through our lives. Paul was a great example of one who didn’t follow at a distance…but dove in head first and made it his aim to follow Christ. In fact, Paul says in Romans 15:20; "I have made it my aim to preach the gospel, not where Christ was named, lest I should build on another man’s foundation." Paul also exhorted the Corinthians in 2 Corinthians 5:9; saying,

“Therefore we make it our aim, whether present or absent, to be well pleasing to Him.” And finally to young Timothy in 2 Timothy 2:4…Paul exhorts him to …aim to please the One who enlisted him. If we like Paul, make it our aim to please Jesus then we will have success in life. The Key is to make it our aim.

I’m not a very good golfer…but I do know that it takes good aim to get that little ball into that little hole. I also know that to be successful in golf, as with any sport…you need to practice. You also need to concentrate, and be disciplined to learn the correct swing to become accurate and be consistent. One commentator said that golf experts can complicate the aiming process so much that they can become completely confused. Harvey Penick, one of the great golf teachers, put it very simply when he was once asked the secret of hitting the golf ball in the direction it should go…"Take dead aim." I like that!

As Believers we are to take "dead aim." We are to make it our aim to die... to our self, that is. Jesus affirmed this in Matthew 10:39 saying "He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it." It's through death that we have life…eternal life and life here on earth. Paul is saying that there are certain things that will help you to aim dead on, thus hitting the target, and getting a hole in one! If you do these things as a Christian…you will have success. Looking back at "these things" that guarantee success as a Christian...1. being sensitive to others 2. dying to self 3. serving others and 4. striving for a crown.

As we practice these four "things" we will soon discovery that our life is no longer about us...it's become all about Him and what pleases Him! I wish I could say that I have these areas mastered in my life, but I don't. I'm still working on them, just like you. Together we can press toward the upward call of God in Christ Jesus! This is a high calling with great rewards!  Each of us who is determined to make His name known will receive a crown in glory. Paul says to strive to receive it! We already have heaven as Believers, but the crown is reserved for those that are busy about their fathers business. Make His business your business as you strive to receive your crown. The reason? We want something to throw down at the feet of Jesus when we get to heaven! Lord, strengthen us in our pursuit of YOU, and help us to make it our aim to please YOU!

First Steps

"Then the Lord said to Moses, "Why are you crying out to Me?" Tell the Israelites to move on. Raise your staff and stretch out your hand over the sea to divide the water so that the Israelites can go through the sea on dry ground." 
Genesis 14:15-16

   It's never easy taking the first step of faith. We often wait, hoping that we will have a nice straight smooth path to walk on. But that's not always the case. Most of the time the Lord requires that we first step out and then He confirms His will making each step known to us when it's needed, and not always when it's wanted. One thing that I've come to understand about the way the Lord works is that He doesn't open paths before we come to them, nor does He provide help before it's needed. He allows us to take the first step and  then He works miracles.

When my kids took their first steps it was something they worked up to. They started crawling, then creeping, then pulling  themselves up on the table, and finally taking baby steps one at at time. I was there cheering them on and holding my arms wide open in case they fell....which they did , plenty of times. But they got back up again and did it again and again until they mastered walking. I knew that my kids needed to learn to walk eventually and the only way this would be accomplished is by encouraging them to stand up and take their first step. Soon after, they were not only walking, but running!

Likewise,  It was when Moses in obedience stretched his hand over the Red Sea that it was parted and the impossible was accomplished as he stepped in on dry land. It was when Abraham stepped up to the call that God answered radically by providing a ram in the thicket. And it's when Joseph stepped out revealing who he was to his brothers that there was restoration with his family.

All three of these men exercised faith and obedience, therefore received a blessing. It takes obedience to receive the blessings of God. We often grow weary while we are waiting thinking that God has forgotten about us...that He somehow has grown deaf to our hearts cry. But oh how much He loves us. He loves us so much that He patiently waits to answer, to provide, to part, and to restore what's broken in His perfect timing. He does this that He may receive the most glory. Many times, He allows us to exhaust our resources, waiting until we come to the end of ourselves, and our backs are to the sea...that we step out of the way and allow Him to lead the way! It's then, that He leads us, provides for us and makes our path clear to us.

Has God asked you recently to take a step out or in or up? You will never know what you could have accomplished until you are willing to obey and take that first step. I wonder if Moses had never stretched out his hand and trusted God, or if Abraham had never believed God, or if Joseph stayed paralyzed in his fear....how their stories would have been so very different. We tend to forget that the same God that parted the Red Sea for Moses is available to part our circumstances and do a miracle. Do you believe in the God o Abraham, Isaac and Jacob? Then trust Him to part the Sea for you...take that first step and watch your GOD work...I dare you to trust Him!

 " The beginning of anxiety is the end of faith and the beginning of true faith is the end of anxiety." -George Mueller

A Glorious Godly Heritage- a word of encouragement for parents and grandparents

   On a recent trip to my parents I was sharing with my mom about getting a record player for Christmas. She told me that she saved some old vinyls and would get them for me. To my great surprise there were several 45's that my great grandpa had released back in the day. It turns out that he was quite the singer songwriter. This impressed me, but, what impressed me even more was what he was singing and writing about...JESUS!

   I wasn't raised in a Christian home, we said grace before dinner and went to the Methodist Church every Sunday, but I never heard the name of Jesus spoken, nor did I ever hear that He was the way to heaven. After I got saved, I often wondered if anybody in my family ever prayed for me, as I was the first one saved. Well, it's been 27 years now and my question has finally been answered! Yes, I did have someone who prayed for me...maybe not by name, but by heritage.

   Timothy had this experience as well. He was a godly young man who had a godly mother and grandmother, although his father was a non believer. Paul reminds us that even one parent or grandparent can have a great influence upon our lives for eternity; "I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also."( 2 Timothy 1:5)  The ways of the Lord were passed down through the generations before Timothy, and they are with us as well. Who was it that prayed for you to get saved? What family member influenced your life for Christ? You may not ever know...or you may find out 27 years later, like me. Be encouraged grandparents and parents alike that you can and will make a lasting impression and have eternal rewards in heaven if you do not give up teaching the word, living the word and speaking forth the Word to your children and grandchildren. I can't wait to get to heaven and meet John J. Cox, my godly grandfather who prayed for his his godly heritage to live on!

Higher Ground

                           

  I came across this little poem that got me thinking this new year. It has no title just a few lines…

”I want to scale the utmost height,

And catch a gleam of glory bright;

But still I’ll pray, till heaven I’ve found,

Lord, lead me on to higher ground!”

Like the  poem, we too should seek to go to higher ground with the Lord…to scale to new heights with Jesus…to know Him better, and to be further transformed in to His image. This is only possible by seeking Him even more diligently than we have ever done in the past. By being more disciplined with our time, and by being more directed by the Holy Spirit with every move we make. This may mean that we set down something’s and pick up others. That we turn off some things and turn on others. That we go to a quiet place and get away from things that tend to distract us.

Charles Spurgeon once said; “We should never be content to rest in the mists of the valley when the summit mountain awaits us”.  Many saints are content to live in coal mines, who never see the sun…they are content to live in dungeons when they could walk on palace roofs.”

Do you want to go to new places with Jesus? Do you want to get out of the dungeon of despair and soar to the summit? Then stop lingering in the lowlands and start climbing.  Climb one step at a time towards the higher ground and you will find that as you take your first step Jesus is right there to help you take the second. Don’t get discouraged about the steepness or ruggedness of the climb, just continue on with your eyes toward the summit, and you will soon find the beauty that awaits you as you have the courage to climb. Don’t settle for the lowlands…rather climb higher and higher until you’ve past the summit and are on your ways to the stars.

There is no boundary with a life fully submitted to the Lord. A life that is yielded to the Father is one that He delights to take to higher ground. “Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your ways to Him, trust also in Him and HE will bring it to pass.” (Psalm 37:4-5) Refuse to give in to the attacks along the way…say no to sluggishness and weakness. Aspire to greater heights and a richer fuller life with your Lord. Blessing awaits the one who is willing to leave the valley and climb to the summit. Someone once said; “Too low they build who build beneath the stars.” Go higher this year with Jesus…go beyond the summit…beyond the stars…shoot for heaven! 

Make Jesus Seen in 2014!

This is my prayer for myself and for you in 2014!  May we let Jesus be seen this coming year. How do we do this? How do we show the world that Jesus is our Lord? We let our lights shine though our lives and our words. We say to the world by the way we live that there is a difference in us...and that difference is Jesus! We may be the only Bible that some people ever read...so let's represent Him rightly!

The closer you are to Jesus the more you will take on His likeness. You will naturally speak forth His words and mimic His actions. It's like a marriage....the longer you are married and the closer you are to each other the more you take on the likeness of your spouse. You begin to finish their sentences and you may even begin to look alike! This is the same thing that happens with Jesus. We take on a different appearance the more we're with Him. As we learn of His ways from the Word of God it takes root in our lives and changes us from the inside out! We may even begin to look different physically...softer and kinder as the rough edges are sanded away by His loving kindness.

We also can make Jesus seen by the way we live. As we draw closer to Jesus our standards begin to change. What we once saw as acceptable is now not pleasing to Jesus. The movies we once saw, the music we previously listened to...now is defiling and not edifying to us as Believers.  We are called to a higher standard. The things we used to do are not to be part of our new life with Christ...and people take notice. The key here is to not make others feel condemned by their lifestyle, rather we are to pray that the Lord may convict them and that they may desire a new life in Christ.  Whether we want to admit it or not...people are watching us. The closer you walk with Jesus, the more you are watched....and the great your influence. Are you praying for some family or friends to get saved? Let your life show that Jesus is worth leaving the world behind. Let others see His love, His peace, and His joy in your life. Are we called to be prefect? NO...we will continue to make mistakes and have trials and tribulations that refine our character...but this is only to mold us even more in to the image of Jesus Christ.

Often times it's how we handle these distressing times that say so much to the world whose looking on. Do we still freak out like we once did? Do we turn to substances as we once did? Or do we weather the storm with Jesus in our boat and watch as He calms the seas of trials that enter our life? No believer is exempt from storms. In fact, the closer you walk with Jesus the more storms you will face. But, be encouraged you are not alone in your boat. As with the disciples who freaked out when caught in a storm on the Sea of Galilee...only to find Jesus asleep in the boat. Jesus does not freak out during storms...He is at rest...knowing that He is drawing out our faith and refining our character. 

Whatever you do...don't hide your light, rather let it shine from the hilltop. Much like a lighthouse, we are to to shine brightly as to lead others to safety. "Let your light so shine among men that they may see  your good works and glorify your Father in heaven." (Matt. 5:16)  Our motive should always be to point people to Jesus and not to us. We are not the standard ...He is! As we concentrate on  making Jesus Seen in 2014 lets remember to have our walk match our talk. Be above reproach in all things, be mindful of those who are weak and could be easily stumbled, and seek to let our life radiate the love of Jesus Christ.  Lets enter this next year with anticipation as we make His name known and allow others to see Him in and through us! Many Blessing in this new year!